Posted by Michael Pollard (188.8.131.52) on October 07, 2000 at 15:24:54:
In Reply to: love posted by kundagbo on October 07, 2000 at 12:21:42:
Hey. Well, sounds as if your quite wraped up in what you want... not really uncommon. Now, I'm not a marriage counceller (not even married) but talking and putting some effort into fixing what ever is causeing the trouble in your marriage may be good. Haveing an affair will only cause further tension, ruining any chance for fixing your marriage. If you try and try to fix it, and you and you wife decide to divorce then haveing a relationship with this woman may be ok (after the divorce is final, don't burn bridges). Even if you get away with it, then what... you will have to deal with guilt and fear, fear of being discovered; any hope of reconciliation will be shot. I may suggest serious heart to heart, and if you need to, try a counceller. Satisfing your pyhsical urge may be a bad idea. If your Buddhist, then you'll remember the 3rd precept... refrain from sexual misconduct, that applies to adultry... the Buddha saw danger in it and you should think about that. Metta.
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